When it comes to dirty talk and getting each other turned on, one of the safest ways to do it is through text messages. You can take your time and think about what you want to say to him. Which is huge, honestly.
Apart from reminding bae to practice their self-care routine, drafting a few sexy texts to send your partner when they're stressed can do wonders. Sex might not be able to solve all your problems, but it is a fun and effective stress-reliever, and trading dirty texts might help take your partner's mind off piled-up paperwork or overdue college essays. Furthermore, there's literally science in favor of sexting as stress relief.
So here are a few ideas for… conversation starters. Trust me, once he reads these the rest will be easy, sis, just go with the flow. I was so bored at work so I started fantasizing about what it would be like if you kidnapped me.
Top definition. When one uses a cell phone's text messages feature to engage in sexually arrousing discussion in a similar fashion to phone sex or cyber sex. This is most commonly employed for propinquitous-challenged individuals.
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Feeling shy and silly about it in general? This is your one-stop-shop, crash course on why sexting is awesome and how to navigate the process. With so much of our communication transitioning to messaging and social media platforms, those who are able to master the nuances of sexualizing text-based chats have a huge edge in enticing their partners and building depth in intimate relationships.
The big fear is coming across as awkward or desperate. The most important rule to keep in mind when sending sexy texts is to do what feels comfortable and natural to you. This is about getting in touch with your sensuality, and sharing that with your partner which, in turn, will get him very much in touch with his sensuality, and from there the flames of passion will really ignite!
Sexting is, no doubt, an art of the 21st century. And one that if you haven't mastered the do's and don'ts yet, you definitely need to. Because not only is texting dirty messages a way to stand out from other women if you're in the dating game, but it's also an incredible way to "enhance sexual communication and intimacy with your partner," says Jane GreerPhD, a relationship expert and author of What About Me? But if you've ever sent a sext that didn't go over very well—or have felt totally out of left field being seductive and not at all awkward—you may have thrown out the idea with your old flip phone.